The part in Frances where Frances says, “I look at these people and I wonder if anybody really loves anybody?”
I wonder the same. Maybe I’m better off.
“By creating the imaginary element that is “sex,” the deployment of sexuality established one of its most essential principles: the desire for sex- the desire to have it, to have access to it, to discover it, to liberate it, to articulate it in discourse, to formulate it in truth. It constituted “sex” itself as something desirable. And it is this desirability of sex that attaches each one of us to the injunction to know it, to reveal its law and power; it is this desirability that makes us think we are affirming the rights of our sex against all power, when in fact we are fastened to the deployment of sexuality that has lifted up from deep within us a sort of mirage in which we think we see ourselves reflected- the dark shimmer of sex.”
the history of sexuality vol i
Roland Barthes, A Lover’s Discourse
Lydia Davis, Varieties of Disturbance
“Men who want to be feminists do not need to be given a space in feminism. They need to take the space they have in society & make it feminist.”Kelley Temple, National Union of Students UK Women’s Officer (via albinwonderland)
“Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it… . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.”